Ashley and I were lesbians before we got to college, but once there we discovered each other and we roomed together for 3 years. We both got teaching jobs in different schools in the same school district. We are now 30 and have been living together for 11 years. We don't hide what we are, but we don't broadcast it either. We go to concerts, school functions and many other things together. A lot of people think we are lesbians, but no one has definite or 1st hand knowledge of anything other than we go to school each day and are excellent teachers. Mandy and Ashley