Barry and I dated over a year before we got married. On our honeymoon, he told me how much he loved me, but he also enjoys sex with other men.I, was needless to say, shocked to hear that the man I love also enjoys sex with other men. It was not a honeymoon that I expected..We jdid join a swinger group the following year. Barry was thrilled, but I was not happy with swinging. He introduced me to Doug during our last night with the group. We are 36 and 29 and we really enjoy Doug coming by to have sex with Barry and me. I'm not into other women and men so brazen that they get into swinging. Doug usually spends the night and I almost enjoy sex with him, but I really like watching Barry suck Doug's cock and Doug fucking Barry. The setting is much more pleasing than being a sex addict with other sex addicts. I can always tell Doug that he is no longer welcome. Carolyn Maloney